Control or Fate?

I believe that people do not control their own fate, because they can only have control of their actions. For example, Obama did not become president by fate, but by the peoples vote or actions. Another example is that when we drive and crash into something it’s because they hit the brakes, they were going to fast, or they panicked. Fate is not under anyone’s control, fate makes people fall in love or makes them die. Sometimes only its up to fate, because people could do something to lead up to that. In the play “Romeo and Juliet” I think it is both fate and choices, because it was fates that lead him to her and his choice to kill himself.